“Am the one who define myself, that doesn’t make me selfish, that’s selflove”
Their are times people often want to be in other peoplee shoes, mainly for their appearance, money, love life and other. Here is one question that you should ask yourself, Is it hard to accept who you are and what you have?. The answer should be easy, NO, It should not, the person we are is who we are meant to be and we got to embrace and love it.
People have a hard time defining who they are, it’s should be easy but it’s not. We got to know who we are in order to love ourselves. In order to Loveyourself you got to be yourself, not a shell of who you are, but your true self, often people portrait what other want them to be not their true unique self, just to apiece others, it doesn’t matter how often you consider other feelings before your own you will always be lacking.
Start loving yourself by separating the assumptions you have developed about who you needed to be in order to be loved and regarded, by starting with this you will separate all the falseness you have been surrounded and the love you have shown others. You will also discover that what you have done was hard work not for you, but for others, also the lost of self-respect to yourself because you weren’t able to be yourself.
Been oneself is difficult, we live with assumptions and trying to fit in people expectations but not our own. We live in a world where perfection is the key to success and beauty, trends, lifestyle play a key role, so, How can I be myself if I have to follow trends?, the answer is that you don’t have too, if you don’t like something, it’s not you, be yourself that’s the key to be happy, be someone who make You happy.